I think that when we press so hard for something that is contrary to God's ways and is deleterious to our life in Christ, God gently but sadly says, "If you really want this, go ahead. I will be waiting until you return. I will not support your sin, but I will be here to cleanse and forgive you when you realize just how far you have moved away from Me."
Not only did the Israelites engage in the practices of the Canaanites, they sought alliances with both Assyria and Egypt. So, in other words, their national and personal life was dictated by people who were as far removed from Yahweh as they could possibly be.
God tells the people:
You may no longer stay here in the Lord’s land.Instead, you will return to Egypt,
and in Assyria you will eat food
that is ceremonially unclean.
There you will make no offerings of wine to the Lord.
None of your sacrifices there will please him.
They will be unclean, like food touched by a person in mourning.
All who present such sacrifices will be defiled.
They may eat this food themselves,
but they may not offer it to the Lord. (Hosea 9:3-4)
Here is an excellent commentary on this:
In the ancient Near East, forming treaties or alliances was a common survival strategy. Neighboring states frequently sought treaties to protect each other’s trade routes, maintain peace, and defend against powerful empires such as Assyria and Egypt. Archaeological texts and reliefs from Assyria (e.g., the annals of Sennacherib) attest that smaller nations often paid tribute or entered alliances to avoid conquest. By human logic, Israel’s desire to join these alliances might appear prudent.However, Hosea points out that Israel’s fundamental error was not the mere act of survival negotiation, but rather abandoning trust in the God who had already delivered them historically. This breach of covenant loyalty becomes a central theme in Hosea’s prophecy. [1]
Israel’s covenant with Yahweh was thus unique. Rather than forging diplomatic ties that often brought pagan influences (for instance, the worship of foreign deities or reliance on idolatrous practices), Israel was to display unwavering fidelity. In Hosea, when God condemns the people for “hiring among the nations,” it illustrates their misplaced faith-seeking security in foreign powers instead of in the One who sustained them. [2]
the day of payment is here.
Soon Israel will know this all too well.
Because of your great sin and hostility,
you say, “The prophets are crazy
and the inspired men are fools!”
The prophet is a watchman over Israel for my God,
yet traps are laid for him wherever he goes.
He faces hostility even in the house of God.
The things my people do are as depraved
as what they did in Gibeah long ago.
God will not forget.
He will surely punish them for their sins. (Hosea 9:7-9)
it was like finding fresh grapes in the desert.
When I saw your ancestors,
it was like seeing the first ripe figs of the season.
But then they deserted me for Baal-peor,
giving themselves to that shameful idol.
Soon they became vile,
as vile as the god they worshiped." (9:10)
because they will not listen or obey.
They will be wanderers,
homeless among the nations. (9:17)